The name is [J O Y C E ]. Im 17. this is my first pregancy. i never thought it would happen so early. but in life you should always expect the unexpected. its gonna be a long hard road;  im scard and i feel alone. thank godd for my mother. with or without the father i know me and my baby are gonna be just fine. this baby is my everything already!



* OCTOBER 28.2008
the begining of our new adventure

Hey you, sorry im just now writing back my silly page never even told me i had a new comment. I was just as scared, i am married but im only 21, i really thought we had these great 2 year plans and because thats what i wanted thats how things were going to work out.... ha yeah right, God threw that in my face. But im at week 12 and now i am more excited and overjoyed than i could ever imagine. I actually grew up without a dad to, long stong, to long to write anyways, but let me tell you my mom was 16 did have help from her mom but otherwise she was able to finish school, even graduated college, is the best thing i could ever ask for and i respect her so much from taking her bad situation and making good things come from it. You are alrady so strong no to just abort instantly, all i can say is wether you see it now or not God is giving you this awesome gift, you will treasure forever. He will not let you fail if you try your hardest to make the best out of it, and for you and your baby! Keep me updated girl, i wanna know everything throughout your pregnancy!!!

Hey hun...oh thank you but I she is a girl...but that totally okay lol! I noticed you said you grew up without ur dad...so did I. I was born to my 15 year old mother and my father was 22 so Im sure you can see the issue. And no being a mom is not hard...its the most wonderful experience in the world. I think when people say its hard they just dont realize that its all part of the package...you can't complain about a blessing...thats the way I look at it. So ur hoping for a boy??

yeah i grew up without my daddy too...but now that i'm pregnant he's trying to be more involved..after all this is his first grandchild by blood...so i'm lovin the fact that he wants to be there...i'm afraid for the same reasons...lucky my family is so supportive...are you outta highschool yet??

lol oh btw I like your name...my middle name's Joy...( i was named after my aunt Joyce lol) just a lil tidbit of info...

you too hun

Uhm I really think its just the fact that I'm 18 and doing this on my own...I mean thank god for myfamily...they arehelpin me out..and being extremely supportive...but if i had to say the hardest is the waiting...the father of my child wants a paternity test (i'm not stupid i knowConnor is his)...and knowing that he ran outon his first child...about a year ago...before you call me stupid lol...he lied alot and told me that he was fighting a battle to get his lil girl back...butinstead he got served with papers from the state of new york for child support...and i'm here in texas sowhile one child support battle is going on..another one will be beginning..because i plan on gettin what i can as soon as i can after my son is here...

what about you...whats the hardestpart of this for you??

Hi and welcome to gaga i hope you have a easy pregnancy if you need nething i am just a message away