I'm 34, have a 7 year old daughter and my newest baby girl born Sept. 7. She came a little early...37 weeks 5 days as she got tangled in her cord and I had to be induced.
In the middle of a divorce from my husband of 14 years as our relationship ended quite suddenly and sourly back in July. Never imagined when I started the pregnancy journey with my new little Frog that I'd end it as a single mom of two.
Right now just focused on raising my girls, picking up the pieces and moving on with my life.

Thank you. I haven't been on in so long. Now that baby is here I am busy all the time. It's soooo wonderful though. Like nothing I ever dreamed.... Oh, wait I don't get to dream anymore because I don't get to sleep, or eat, or shower.... LOL

HOpe all is well wih you!

thats how it always is. Your ex wasnt the one for you. i'm glad you met someone better! i hope he stays that way too!

thank you! where have you been? hows everything going with you! kay is loving her little brother. she's so helpful have a great thanksgiving!

are u breastfeeding or formula.? you'll make it just fine as a single mom! just gotta get your timing down and u'll do fine. my daughter is fine right now. she'll be home next month. she is so ready for it!!

whts funny is i had a doc appt with an u/s the day before and they never saw it!! hows everything going?

very true! i am orignially from St. Louis, right now i'm working at the army resreve record center and will probably be here until they move to ft knox, ky in 2010. well i do have to do 2 1/2 months of training in tx next march. but i'll come back here. i caught a break and got stationed where my family is. i use to be a sgt in a chemical unit then i became a LT. i use to live in granite city, il. thats where my daughte wants to move back to.

yes, she says she's gonna get up too in the middle of the night! i said no ur arent cause u'll have school to be ready for. see her father lives in houston so she doesn't see him that much. this one's father is here so i think that plays a jealousy factor as well. i just tell her that when he's with his father we have time together by ourselves. no boys allowed.

i will have to try the big sister role. i asked her yesterday what her deal was and what she needed from me and she couldn't give me an answer. whe later said that she wanted to move back to our old apartment, which i refuse because i hated the school district. we were there two yrs so she was comfortable, i told her this is our life because i'm in the military. i'm gonna have to take her to dinner and have a little talk with her. plus i know that living with my mom is getting on both our nerves right now. my guy has a niece who is 8 yrs older than her brother and she was giving her tips the other day. i thought that was cute. right now i'm just trying to keep her around kids her again cause she already thinks she's gonna be responsible with feeding and changing diapers. i'm like and what am i suppose to be doing while u being momma. lol

she's pulling some cards!!! man i was so fustrated with her yesterday. i don't do anything different from what i've always done with her, because i didn't want to feel things were going to change. she would say oh i won't get as much stuff anymore. so i tell her his needs will be different from her needs cause they are so far apart in age. i don't know. the closer he gets to getting here the weirder she gets

she was cool until recently. she told me last week to have him go stay with his father cause she's not ready she needs a few more years with me by herself. she's really been acting out lately too. getting me upset with her complaining. we live with my mom right now until i find a place and i'm trying to get a 3 bedroom so she won't have to share a room. she's just worrying me.

that is so true! how does ur oldest feel about the new baby?

hey due date buddy!!! is life ever what we expected?!

No , nothing yet, but I have been down with what feels like the stomache flu. I was sooo sick. I thought I was in labor, but it all went away.   I am still having some stomach pains, but they are so spaced out from each other right now. Wish me luck tho!

and its soooo funny I am due on a 22nd AGAIN lol these babies r somewhat alike lol...

So I forgot to say that I lived in GA in 2004 w that pregnancy as well my ex was in the army and we were at benning... I like GA and my dad lives there too in Loganville  

I PT'ed u!

hey grl I saw ur due on Sept the 22nd hehe that was my due date in 2004 w my son Braeden adn he was actually BORN THAT DAY   good luck w everything ur almost there !