hey my name is steph i am 18 years old and expecting my first child which is a BOY!!<3,Jasper Aaron Leonard. Jasper was conceived in July just after my 18th birthday after me and his dad pushed our friendship a bit further after 5 years of being really close mates we decided to you know well Anyways i find out 4 weeks later that i am pregnant with my two best friends beside me one of them pregnant herself at the time but i wouldn't of wish a better outcome im wrapped that im having a baby i may of not wanted him from the start but i would do anything for jasper hes my life now and that's what matters
i may be very young to be a mother but age doesn't make a difference its by how you do u actions i may not be a mother by the book i know i will make mistakes but nobody is perfect.
unfortunately i am going to be a single parent because the father did not want to take responsibility for his actions and made a choice to leave us and chose to never seek his son when he's older that his choice which is pretty stupid but he's one of those guys that take advantage of someone and thinks he can get away with it. but he will have to live with it.
i want to raise my baby boy right to teach him to respect others and become a good man in the future. i know i will do a good job at it i want my son to have the life i did not have so i will be going back to school and completing my VCE certificate and the going to uni to do my nursing/paramedic degree so that i will not have to rely on the government for my son but for now i will and i hate it
i have an amazing foster mother named Pam i love her to bits she is my mum even if she's not biological but she was more than a mother to me than my real one she taught me so many things and was a mother to me she was there for a shoulder to cry on and a good time i want to be like her so my son got what she did for me.
i have amazing best friends Taylah,tee and Tara they have been with me through the good and the bad Taylah and i where pregnant together not on purpose but she was 3 months ahead of me now has a beautiful daughter named Cassidy i love cuddling her i love my niece so much me and taylah joke around and say that she will be jaspers little girlfriend when they are older. Taylah and tee where there when i first found out hold my hand when i got a blood test and tried to make me smile not saying im not happy about this but at the start i was shocked you know but i love them girls so much and hope we stay friends for may years to come.
i also have a amazing sister she blessed me with a niece and a nephew Kane and Lilith she's been helping me since the start of my pregnancy giving me tips and stuff love you
i cannot wait till little jasper is born to hold him in my arms for the first time i know i will cry i cannot wait to be a mother its been a long and hard pregnancy been in and out of hospital because of pre term labor but were still fighting to keep him in there his my life now and ill love him forever
Jasper Aaron Leonard (him@ 12 weeks & 3days)
1-4 weeks = 1 month - complete!
5-8 weeks = 2 months - complete!
9-13 weeks = 3 months - complete!
14-17 weeks = 4 months - complete
18-21 weeks = 5 months - complete
22-26 weeks = 6 months - complete
27-30 weeks = 7 months - complete
31-35 weeks = 8 months - cooking my baby
36-40 weeks = 9 months - incomplete
...ABOUT THE MOMMY...
Is this the first child?: Yes
...ABOUT THE DADDY...
Is this the first child?: No second
Are you two together?: No.
SEX OF THE BABY
What did you want. Boy or Girl?: Girl
Do you know what you are having now?: BOY!!<3
Are you happy with what you are having?: yeah ether way i was happy with what i got
ABOUT THE BIRTH
Who is going to be with you?: My mumma bear pam<3
Are you going to video tape it?: Hell no
Natural or medicated?: Wait and see
Do you think you will have a c-section?: I hope nott!!
Do you think you will cry when you first hold your baby?: Yes
Do you know what you will say to the baby when you first hold it?: hey little baby mummy is so happy your here
Are you scared about the labor?: yes
Do you have a name picked out?:Jasper Aaron Leonard
Is your baby going to be named after anyone?: Yes my dad and my brother in law (middle name only)
Did the daddy help pick the name?: nope
OTHER RANDOM QUESTIONS
Where was your baby conceived?: On his daddys bed :p
Have you felt the baby move?: All the time hes an very active baby boy
What was your first symptom?: puking my guts up
Will you have godparents?: yes my best friend Taylah and my mate Ryan
What is the baby's room theme?: don't know white and blue
Are you ready to be a mommy?: yep
What do you think the baby will be a "daddy boy or mummas boy? MUMMA BOY!!
Did you have morning sickness? only at the start
Did you have any cravings? Yes hungry Jacks whoppers with extra tomato sauce and mayo with onion rings
Did you have any mood swings? yes they all call me a real bitch at times
Are you a high risk pregnancy? yes
Any complications? Positive for pre labor in and out of hospital
Formula or breastfeeding? Breastfeeding
Have you bought anything for baby yet? his whole room stuff
When did you start to show? bout 17 weeks
How long could you wear your regular clothes? still can sorta
Are you excited? yes OMG YES!!!
Who will help with baby after their born? My Mom
What is your favorite thing about being pregnant? when he kicks and moves spesh when he has the hiccups
What is the worst thing about being pregnant? Stretch marks and having contractions
------------- BELLLY PROGRESS, ♥
Mii Belly @8weeks
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