My name is Dessii and I was born in 1982. I have been with my husband since I was 17 years old. He was born in 1974. We have 1 daughter together who was born in 2001. I got my tubes clamped thinking that when I can afford another child I would be able to afford to get my tubil reversed or get invetro. Husband and I determined we were ready for another child financially, stabily, and emotionally. Went to invetro dr said I need to loose weight (about 60 pounds for BMI reasons). Toughest time doing that in my life! Having trouble getting the weight off! If I could do private adoption I would and If I could get the weight off and get prego I would consider getting invetro with twins and adopting out one of them to a family wanting a baby although there are some things that make me a little nervous to do that (like hurt feelings in the long run making me not want to ever do adoption again for other people) but I am willing to try.
I cant figure out how the heck to add pictures to this profile!