Hello, my name is Ashley, and my husband and I live with our wonderful son in a small town in Arizona. No I don’t live in the desert, I live up north and there’s a mountain in my town. My husband and I got married in 2007 right after we lost our little Gaivin at only 20 weeks along. We though about cancelling the ceremony and only going to the justice of the peace but being surrounded by our friends and family and being able to focus on something besides loosing our baby really helped me cope with it all. We met on the internet and while some might think we’re weird for it, many happy couples I know met that way too, and I’d recommend it to anyone!
In 2007 in april at just twenty weeks we lost our first baby, a boy we named Gavin. Its was devastating and even though it was due to incompetent cervix, I still blame my self for loosing him. At first any memories of him made me said, but know that I have grieved, im just thankful for the short time he was in my life. Since my husband and I are both Christians we know goodbye really is goodbye but just see ya soon.
In October of 2007 we found out we were expecting our second baby, our son Wyatt. We’re were over the moon, and though it was a stressful pregnancy, I had a stitch put in my cervix at 14 weeks, contractions started at 20 weeks, and since Iam also diabetic I was induced at 37 weeks, I was determined to get this baby here safe. Wyatt was born at 37 weeks no problems and as healthy as a full term baby. He is now 2 and the absolute love of our lives. He’s always singing or dancing, and coming up with stuff that makes me roll on the floor crying with laughter!!
This October we again found out we were expecting our third child, we’re hoping for a girl this time, but another boy would be equally as welcome. Im due July 2nd, but since they’ll induce early the baby will be here sometime in june just like my son, and his daddy! Im not sure if we’ll find out the sex or not, I kinda want the whole surprise in the delivery room scenario. Lol. So that’s me I feel im defined by my faith, my family, and my love of cake decorating which I hope to make a career out of someday. And I truly believe babies are the greatest thing about life.