I'm a website developer that has started her own business about 1 month before becoming pregnant. This pregnancy is VERY unexpected. We were on a plan that we were told had a 2% failure rate, when in reality it was more like 30%!! We are just starting to adjust to the news. Because of this news, my husband went into a deep depression (which yes he's getting help with). The reason for the depression was we found out that he was physicologically abused as a child. He was given food, shelter, and the basic nessecities, but no real love, he was used more as a toy for his mother and a burden for his father. He had been harbouring these things until he found out that he was going to be a father. As i've said we are getting better and my husband is getting the help he needs. Thankfully he's part of the armed forces so they are helping him for free!!