I'm 19 and engaged to a wonderful man.
He just got home from training for the army and we just moved into our own place.
We were somewhat TTC before he got home, but since he's been here, we've decided to wait a little longer so we can enjoy being young and really make sure we can financially support a baby. Mind you, for the most part, those are the father's thoughts, but I am going to respect them because I don't want to start a new life until he is absolutely sure he's ready.
I was pregnant when I was 17, but that ended in something I nor the father wanted. I still lived at home and my parents pushed me to get an abortion I never ever wanted for myself and I wasn't strong enough to fully stand up to them. I don't have a grudge against them because it's really what they felt was best for me. It is a mistake I will always live with, but I truly believe everything happens for a reason. When the time is right, God will bless me with a child. Until then, I am going to continue being young.
When I first signed up for BG, I thought I was pregnant (which I was trying for), as I was a week late on my period. It turned out to be a false alarm, but I chose to stay here because I really enjoy talking to people about pregnancy, hearing stories, sharing experiences, etc.
I am well-educated and a hard worker. I do not want any help from anyone, including my parents.
I am a very family-oriented person. Over the years, while we've had our rough times, they've been the only people, other than my fiance, who I can truly count on to be there for me. Especially my mom. She is my best friend and my hero.
I just finished my firstyear of college as a nursing major and hoping to have a spanish minor. I want to go into labor and delivery or pediatrics. I am transferring schools for the rest of my college career, and I am now behind by a semester. But as I mentioned before, I am a hardworker, so I know I will catch up.
I'm not here for the drama, just to talk to people.

i have allways wanted to be a mother aswell but i still wish me and her farther were together but it would of never of worked.i think you should have a baby you would be a brilliant mom .I mean im allready planning my next lol well when i want another one,its hard but when she smiles at me she lights my life up.i did post somthing about this before saying that i got pregnant after i had an abortion and quite alot of people were slaggin me off. have u actually been ttc since december 07 ?x