I know it's so crazy. I feel like my moms family all died so u expectedly and tragically. It's awful Ashley was awful cause her uncle guy is a first responder and her grandpa so my other cousin called them first and they came right over (live next door) and it was really hard on them to hear her begging them to help her my grandmas house was rebuilt really nice after the fire, but it was a little strange for her to rebuild on the same site. But she rebuilt a completely diff house plan so it doesn't feel like te same so that helps.
I also live in a small quiet town. I don't get to oscoda too much. We're all so busy it's hard to coordinate get togethers.