well he is being a butt saying "i didn't want this baby, i didn't plan for it". not ready to face responsibility you know? it sure doesn't help that he is bi-polar. so going back and forth from day to day, more like hour to hour, kinda sucks. im packing up and gonna say "see ya". and keep my fingers crossed that one day he might change, and if he gets better months or a year down the road like your case, well maybe we can work things out.