Just to let everyone know im not pregnant for sure [yet]. the due date was so i could set up an account to ask some questions..

Well, to start off im 18 and i've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. [although we've been friends for over 3 years now] its a long and complicated story, which, if i end up pregnant for sure, i will tell you all.. i just really need to know how to tell my parents if i am pregnant. [the chances are probably not in my favor, i know its irresponsible of my boyfriend and i, but sometimes it just ends up happening in the heat of the moment. im sure alot of you know..] anyways.. heres the lowdown on my parents.. my dad got married young then got heartbroken so he didnt remarry for a while.. long story short, hes old fashioned. he doesnt believe that someone my age should 'even be thinking of a relationship'.. which on some levels i agree.. but hes always told me, 'if you get pregnant, youre not living under my roof' .. and plus im his youngest. my mother is bipolar/pskitsofrenic[sp?] and honestly shes not the most of my worries, she lives in her own alternate universe.
what worries me is my boyfriend. hes currently unemployed and is having difficulties finding a job [like many people these days]. im sure hed take responsibility and get a job, any job he could find, but im just worried with how long we've been together that he'll like.. have a heart attack? and hes sorta 'baby-phobic' if you kow what i mean..
As far as an abortion would be considered.. it wouldn't. reason for this being; i had a miscarriage last year and it made me realize how precious life is. i wouldnt want to kill an innocent child or any part of me or my boyfriend that i am responsible for.

sorry if this was really long but i was looking for some advice. thanks

My birthday is march 1st  
Well , I got pregnant when I was 16 &I thought may mom would kick me out to . But she took it WAYYY better than I would have ever thought . I dont think you should tell anyone until you know you are FORE SURE pregnant because it can add a lot of un necassary stress in your relationships . well keep in touch . oh and do you have a job ? If so take a test their so you dont chance anyone finding it or something. let me know how everything goes .