Expecting my first child on April 1st, 2010. I currently live in Esko, MN with the baby's father and our roommate. I'm almost positive that I'm going to be a single mother as the baby's father has made it very clear that he wants me to put the little one up for adoption. He doesn't even plan on being there for the delivery as he doesn't want to see his son/daughter at all. Regardless of his final decision, I plan on making the best possible life for my child. With or without him.

"A woman becomes a mother when she first learns she's pregnant. A man becomes a father when he first holds his baby."

I'm hoping that he'll come around, but if he doesn't, he's gonna miss out on something amazing.

hei., i have read your post..
id like to say just... it is seen from your post out that you are mature and strong enough to do it on your own. really, never put ANYTHING/ANYONE before your child. and nothing is really more important than your child.

he sounds like a total dick for doing that to you, like its juts your fault that youve gotten pregnant.
if you allready feel that much about that unborn child, its to expect thatz you will be extremly down if yxoud go into adoption.

in my opinion, you are strong enough to do it on your own, you dont need him, you said you have your family and friends who will support you, go for it.

it is your child and it is your decision what to make.