I had a Spontaneous Abortion at 14 weeks and 10 years later, I had a early delivery at 20 weeks. The second time is harder for me because I held my daughter. She was born alive and breathed on her own for an hour. I watched her open her mouth and move her arm, and now 3 days later I had to bury her. I am 32 years old and this would have been my first. Your success after your 2 has given me hope. My husband and I are going to try once more. I pray that God allows us to bring a little one of us here.