Dear Kayden's Mama,
thank you so much for parentanking.

What a handsome lil man your monkey boy is, I am so sorry to hear that he went to Heaven so soon already. I can't imagine how you must feel... Sounds strange maybe, but sometimes people have told me that they wish that IF their child was supposed to leave that they wished it was because of anything BUT sids: they said because now they had nobody/nothing to blame... To me it seems never fair to have to give up a child so precious... And then sometimes words well meant can be difficult for everyone involved. I wrote a poem about that that I shall put in my album with videos, because I don't want to upset you if you don't like it. people are interesting creatures - they can be...I don't know... An acquaintance of mine read the poem and said: "wow, that is rather dark". And it is. It is an angry poem. But I said to her: "I'd think that people dealing with the loss of a child go through every emotion you think of and then some". Her reply: hmmm, dunno - never experienced that... Is it me? I didn't believe what I was hearing: how can someone react that cold? Then I think of little Kayden and I think "no, it's not just me..." Thanks again for saying hi. Oh the poem is called "little Ambassador" - againg: it is an angry/upset poem... many blessings, francisca :-)