I am a mother of 3...2 amazing boys Bryce and Mason They are 14 months apart.and Essence she is 19 months apart from Mason. We tried for Bryce. Mason was a bit of a surprise from a little too good of a night on Daddy's birthday lol. But we love him to death and dont know what we would do without him.Essence was also conceived on purpose we didnt want are kids far apart and 3 is enough for us.