My name is Sam, I am a mother to a boy called Evan Tyler Williams born on Thanksgiving 2011 - daddy is proud as he is American.
Just found out that I am expecting number 2 (on Tuesday 16th October) after swearing never to see a midwife again. Due 25th June 2013.
Am very excited but nervous too - especially that something will go wrong after such a hard time previously. Stay strong bean!!!
FIRST TRIMESTER
1-4 weeks = 1 month -Complete
5-8 weeks = 2 months - Complete
9-13 weeks = 3 months - In progress
SECOND TRIMESTER
14-17 weeks = 4 months - Incomplete
18-21 weeks = 5 months - Incomplete
22-26 weeks = 6 months - Incomplete
THIRD TRIMESTER
27-30 weeks = 7 months - Incomplete
31-35 weeks = 8 months - Incomplete
36-40 weeks = 9 months! - Incomplete
Your 1st trimester:March 2, 2011 - May 25, 2011.(0 - 12 weeks)
Your 2nd trimester: May 26, 2011 to September 7, 2011. (13 - 27 weeks)
Your 3rd trimester: September 8, 2011 to December 7, 2011. (28 - 40 weeks)
Last Menstrual Cycle: Tuesday, September 18th, 2012
Conception Occurred: Tuesday, October 2nd, 2012
Pregnancy Test: Wednesday, October 17th, 2012
First Trimester Ends {12 Weeks + 6}: Monday, December 17th, 2012
Second Trimester Ends {27 Weeks + 6}: Monday, April 1st, 2013
Estimated Due Date: Tuesday, June 25th, 2013
Quickening: *TBC*
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Pregnancy Survey
About You
Name: Sam(antha)
Age: 24
Height:157cm
About The Father
Name: Michael
Age: 24
Height:185cm
Are you still together: Yes, married since 10th September 2008
About Your Pregnancy
Is this your first pregnancy?: No
When did you find out you were pregnant: October 17th 2012
Was it planned: Yes but didn’t expect it to happen this month
What was your first reaction: YAY!
Who was with you when you found out: I was on my own the first two tests and asked my son’s Godmother if she saw 2 lines (one was faint) and then did more tests with my husband after work.
Who was the first person you told: My husband by email to ask if he saw two lines on the first test.
How did your parents react: Haven’t told them yet – not sure they’d be too happy (even though I’m 25 and have my life together). I will when I am past 12 weeks (if I get there).
How far along are you when taking this survey: 5 weeks + 2 days
What was your first symptom: I had heartburn the day of ovulation for a few days and had gone off cheese and crisps (like before) but I had cramps like AF was on her way.
What is your due date: June 25th, 2013
Do you know the sex of the baby: No
If so, what is it: We’re hoping to keep it a surprise but doubt we will be able to.
Have you picked out names: Kind of.
If so, what are they: Jackson for a boy, not sure about a girl
How much weight have you gained: None yet but I’m just at the beginning.
Do you have stretch marks: Yes, from the previous pregnancy.
Have you felt the baby move: Not yet.
Have you heard the heartbeat: No but if all goes well I have booked a private scan for Monday 5th November 2012.
Sex of the baby!
What do u want: I don’t mind, just as long as they’re healthy.
What does the daddy want: Not sure, he keeps changing his mind.
What do u think u r having: I think this one will be another boy – I was right last time so we’ll see.
Have you had your 20 week ultrasound yet: No
If so, what are you having: NA
Are you happy with what you are having: A baby!
About the birth
Will you keep the baby: Of course
Home or hospital birth: Hospital birth
Natural or medicated birth: I'm hoping on natural but wouldn't say no to pain relief if needed (I managed over 24 hours last time until I needed help, hoping to have better care this time and no pain relief).
Who will be in the delivery room with you: My husband
Will you breastfeed: I’ll try but they didn’t work so well last time so maybe I’ll pump again.
Do you think you'll need a c-section: I hope not.
Will you cry when you hold the baby for the first time: Last time I was too shell-shocked to cry straight away but I probably will this time.
What's the first thing you might say to him/her: If it’s like before it’ll be “Hello! Aww you’re so little. I love you!”
Would you let someone videotape the birth: I would like to see what I’m like during labour (I’m told hilarious but it didn’t feel that way).
Are you excited about the birth, or scared: I am excited but very anxious after the problems I had last time.
OTHER RANDOM QUESTIONS !!
Where was your baby conceived: Our marital bed ;) lol
Have you felt the baby move: No
What race will your baby have? From you and daddy: White - British (with other mixes from me) and American.
What is the baby's room theme: Depends on the sex. Our son has stars so we’ll see….
What was the first thing you bought for the baby: Nothing yet and will hold off as long as possible.
Are you ready to be a mommy: I’m already a mother so yes, I am ready again!
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Very hectic pregnancy and labour was no better as I was induced and the level of care was atrocious BUT the birth itself wasn't too bad. Daddy chose the first name, my nephew chose the middle name and I did all the hard work I would have liked more children but the pregnancy was so hectic I'm not so sure lol. I must say that all of the hard work was worth it - I love him so much! Sad that we lost his twin but so proud Evan survived against the odds.
We were expecting twins but lost one. I am due on 7th December 2011 and this has been a very difficult pregnancy with everything from miscarriage, emergency scans, a later heavy bleed with fitting (threatened miscarriage), epic sickness and lots more. Now am told that I have slightly reduced blood from my left vein going to the placenta so I now have appointments at least every 2 weeks until the end of the pregnancy. Hoping the baby stays safe and well (also hoping the rest of the pregnancy and labour go smoothly).
How I found out I was pregnant: I had terrible heartburn and had never had it before then missed my period and checked the day after. Was a complete surprise as we were told my husband would not be able to naturally get me pregnant (slow swimmers)so a miracle and amazing birthday present for him
At 30weeks+6 his growth slowed down a lot (only 3lb 1oz) which they suspected would happen. I am told that if he doesn't put enough weight on by 33weeks+6 then I'll either be admitted to hospital for bed rest or be induced. There is no way they will let me pass my due date so I'll be meeting little man any time from now until 7th December Am also really happy that they've told me if they have to induce it'll be natural unless there are complications (no doubt there will be because I don't want a C-section!). With all of the appointments which are a bit of a PITA I get to see him every 2-4 weeks on ultrasound which I LOVE! He loves his space though like me so when the ultrasound tech pokes him with the machine he punches back lol and if I get sad he gives me a little tap to remind me he's there always makes me feel better.
Yesterday (25th October/33+6) it was confirmed that my baby is not gaining enough weight so he'll be taken out at the very least three weeks earlier than expected. I am anxious but can't wait to meet him
Your 1st trimester:March 2, 2011 - May 25, 2011.(0 - 12 weeks)
Your 2nd trimester: May 26, 2011 to September 7, 2011. (13 - 27 weeks)
Your 3rd trimester: September 8, 2011 to December 7, 2011. (28 - 40 weeks)
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1st Trimester
1-4 weeks = 1 month -Complete
5-8 weeks = 2 months - Complete
9-13 weeks = 3 months - Complete
2nd Trimester
14-17 weeks = 4 months - Complete
18-21 weeks = 5 months - Complete
22-26 weeks = 6 months - Complete
3rd Trimester
27-30 weeks = 7 months - Complete
31-35 weeks = 8 months - Complete
36-40 weeks = 9 months! - Complete!!! Hello baby Evan xxx mummy loves you!
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Last Menstrual Cycle: Wednesday, March 2, 2011
Conception Occurred: Wednesday, March 16, 2011
Pregnancy Test: Thursday, March 31, 2011
First Trimester Ends {12 Weeks}: Wednesday, May 25, 2011
Second Trimester Ends {27 Weeks}:Wednesday, September 7, 2011
Estimated Due Date: Wednesday, December 7,2011
Quickening:That's feeling the baby move yes? From 15/16 weeks ***********************************************************************
Pregnancy Survey
About You
Name: Sam(antha)
Age: 24
Height:157cm
About The Father
Name: Michael
Age: 24
Height:185cm
Are you still together: Yes, married since 10th September 2008
About Your Pregnancy
Is this your first pregnancy?: Yes
When did you find out you were pregnant: March 31, 2011
Was it planned: Yes but we had been trying for 8 months so didn't expect it
What was your first reaction: No. NO! OMG WOOOOOOOOO!!!!!
Who was with you when you found out: I was on my own - I had epic heartburn for a few days and was one day late so just thought I'd check.
Who was the first person you told: My husband (called him as he was on his way to work) then my parents.
How did your parents react: They expected it as we've been married for a while so they were pleased but my dad put the downer on - "don't tell anyone until the 12th week - you never know what can happen". I know his intentions were right but thanks a lot lol.
How far along are you when taking this survey: 19 weeks & edited at 30 weeks
What was your first symptom: I had terrible heartburn 3 days before I was due (never had heartburn before) and rare dreams.
What is your due date: December 7, 2011
Do you know the sex of the baby: Yes
If so, what is it: Boy
Have you picked out names: I picked my girl name straight away but am struggling with boy names :/
If so, what are they: They are COOL! Lol
How much weight have you gained: No idea lol! I lost a lot of weight with certain issues and complications.
Do you have stretch marks: Not yet..........
Have you felt the baby move: Yes!
Have you heard the heartbeat: Yes!!!! I bought a doppler so I can listen anytime I want to/any time I get worried.
Sex of the baby!
What do u want: As long as they're healthy I don't mind
What does the daddy want: A girl
What do u think u r having: I think boy just because EVERYONE either wants me to have a girl or thinks it's a girl (I was right!).
Have you had your 20 week ultrasound yet: Yes
If so, what are you having: A boy
Are you happy with what you are having: I've been happy from day one (apart from losing the twin and my complications). No matter what the sex I'll love them just as much
About the birth
Will you keep the baby: Yes! Even daddy will struggle to get a cuddle lol
Home or hospital birth: Hospital birth
Natural or medicated birth: I'm hoping on natural but wouldn't say no to gas & air. Really don't want a C-section or epidural if I can avoid them.
Who will be in the delivery room with you: My husband
Will you breastfeed: Yes! That's what I have boobies for and can pass on immunity Plus, it's free!
Do you think you'll need a c-section: There is a strong possibility but I'm hoping not.
Will you cry when you hold the baby for the first time: Possibly :/
What's the first thing you might say to him/her: I love you!!! Thank you for coming out of me
Would you let someone videotape the birth: Heck no! One or two labour pics (early ones) but no lady garden pics :/
Are you excited about the birth, or scared: Excited, scared, nervous, anxious lol
OTHER RANDOM QUESTIONS !!
Where was your baby conceived: Our bed
Have you felt the baby move: Yes
What race will your baby have? From you and daddy: White - British (with other mixes from me) and American.
What is the baby's room theme: Currently the baby will be in with us until my house sells and we can buy one closer to where we work.
What was the first thing you bought for the baby: After the 12 week scan we bought a few little bits of clothing, a moses basket and a cot bed (was on special offer).
Are you ready to be a mommy: More than ready! Been waiting for this day for a long time (well 3 years - he was deployed a lot at first then we had to live in separate countries)!
